EVERYTHING! is Beautiful in it’s TIME!


Ecclesiastes 3

A Time for Everything

Vs. 11- “He has made everything beautiful in it’s time”

Today I want to remind us, specifically Single Girls that there is a time for everything! EVERYTHING!

So if you’re single today, don’t be down and out because you’ve not received a bouquet of flowers or box of chocolates or some special attention from a Man, but instead celebrate this time of single-hood. I wish I had enjoyed it more before all the responsibilities came, but even now as a Single Mother I’m learning to make the most of this time; This year in particular is already so BEAUTIFUL! because all the time I used to spent either catching up on a series or entertaining people I use that time to be in the presence of God.

My evenings involve getting an update from my kids on how their day was, eat dinner together(not as often as we should), home-work check, bed-time story, prayer time and then I tuck them in. I then use that quiet time to do my bible reading and get lost in His presence as I listen to my worship music or watch a sermon online or get on a christian blog or cozy up to one of my christian books and just constantly feed myself with His word! Because Faith comes by Hearing and by hearing the word of God.

I wouldn’t trade my time with Him for ANYTHING! and of-course this wouldn’t be the case if I was sharing my life with someone else other than my children, so instead of looking at the clock as I approach 31years old soon… I am so content and happy in Jesus to the point where if marriage is not in the books for me that is just fine, because my heart is happy and so full with Jesus as my everything.

Use your single-hood to know yourself better, to seek God with all of you and to serve Him!

I think relationships should only happen once you are living out your purpose and you find each-other busy fulfilling it and support each other to reach your fullest potential.

Don’t get into a relationship just for the sake of it or because you’re lonely, but wait until you’re ready- “Do not awaken love before it’s time”- Song of Songs 8:4 instead remember that relationships should be built on purpose, so are your purposes aligned? should be a question to ponder on and a prayer point. You are meant to help each-other fulfill each other’s purposes, so stay busy seeking yours & boldly living it out and at the right time your partner will find you.

Remember you are to be FOUND! “He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains Favour from the Lord”- Proverbs 18:22

You don’t have to do anything my dear girls, please don’t chase- you weren’t made to chase-leave that to the men and instead just allow for your heart to be so lost in God that he will first have to seek God to find you. For in God’s appointed time He will find you.

Happy Valentines!

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  1. You always speak to me, for some reason I find your IG page as a safe place. Thanks and God bless you mama twins.

  2. Happy valentines Grace,love everything about you, you are a true good example many women,you speak right to the heart,Baraka tele on the ministry you are truly a woman of valour.

  3. Awwwww…i am inspired by your writing because you may not know but this is an inspiration to me and i am a lady full of Faith and i have created time with my Bible and then your good explanations from your articles especially the one for today and the one for Sunday after the revival tour..Asante sana

  4. This is a very delightful post especially to a young lady like me. I have learnt that with time everything will fall into place and that when you are ready for your better half, God will surely make him find you. As for now let me concentrate on my growth ( spiritually..mentally..physically and emotionally). The words in this post are just encouraging and fulfilling. And as i enjoy my youth let me continue filling up my heart with Jesus cause He is my everything.

  5. Thank you for the post. It has totally ministered to me. Knowing and growing in God is the best decision I ever made.

  6. ‘Don’t awaken love before it’s time’ wow! I love, you spoke to me gal. May God bless favor and protect you and your family. Lov

  7. This Lady is Amazing,I always wake up to your social accounts to see what message God has given you to bring it to me because for me,you are a God’s messenger in many ways,you are such a blessing into my life especially at a time like this when am only one month old in salvation.May God continue giving you the strength,for your call/purposes.Be BLESSED mama ZaRa

  8. This is so true and beautiful. The word of God is the best guide in living this life. Thank you always for the ministry Grace.

  9. M grateful I hv accessed yur blog. M fully blessed n experiencing much growth. Thnk. BARAKA TELE.